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Theology and Therapy


Christian Marriage Counseling or Pastoral Counseling: What Is the Difference?
Compare Christian marriage counseling and pastoral counseling by role, training, goals, privacy, and the place of faith—and decide what support fits.
Shira Hearn
2 hours ago3 min read


What If Only One of Us Wants Christian Marriage Counseling?
When only one spouse wants Christian marriage counseling, get specific about what each of you means, name your limits, and make room for both of you.
Shira Hearn
2 hours ago3 min read


Stanley Hauerwas, EFT, and Love That Changes People
What kind of people are we becoming in this relationship? Shira considers Stanley Hauerwas, EFT, and love that changes more than how we communicate.
Shira Hearn
Mar 85 min read


C. S. Lewis, Love, and What EFT Teaches Us About Relationships
A reflection on C. S. Lewis, love, and EFT's focus on emotional connection—beyond simply learning to say things better.
Shira Hearn
Mar 14, 20255 min read
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