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Shira Hearn
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Missouri #2022045023
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RADICALLY DIFFERENT THERAPY · MISSOURI
Couples counseling for Duenweg, MO.
You are speaking again. That does not mean it feels repaired.
Dinner gets made. Someone sends a funny video. You get through the next day together, but the hurt is still sitting there. If moving on has become your only way of ending a fight, we can work on what it would take to actually come back to each other.
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In person in Webb City, near Joplin · Both partners
Shira Hearn, LMFT
Couples are my whole practice.
100–110 minutes
Time for both of you
$180 per session
Self-pay · No insurance billed
In person
At the Joplin–Webb City border
WHAT BRINGS YOU HERE?
The part after “sorry.”
An apology may be sincere and still leave questions unanswered. Does your partner understand what hurt? Will anything change? Is there room to say that you are still upset without starting the whole fight again?
Repair involves what happens next. We look at how each of you tries to reconnect, why those attempts sometimes miss, and what makes it hard to accept closeness after an argument.
No fluff, no BS therapy for relationships that need radical help.
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Make room for the hurt that keeps returning after an argument is supposedly over.
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Explore repair when an apology follows a serious breach of trust.
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Work on intimacy when unresolved resentment keeps showing up between you.
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Talk about apologies, responsibility, and how you want to handle conflict in marriage.
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THE WORK IN THE ROOM
We look at how you find your way back.
One person may offer a hug to say the relationship is okay. The other may experience that same hug as pressure to stop being hurt. A failed attempt to reconnect can become another injury neither person intended.
Using Emotionally Focused Therapy, I help you put words to those different experiences. We can notice the wish for reassurance, the need for acknowledgment, and the defensive response that arrives when either goes unanswered.
I also pay attention to responsibility. Understanding an action and its impact gives repair somewhere concrete to begin. We work with what can be acknowledged now and what will need consistent follow- through.
An unfinished argument takes up space long after the room goes quiet.
THE OFFICE
Your Duenweg starting point. Our Webb City meeting place.
I offer in-person couples appointments at 2830 Mt. Hope Rd. in Webb City, near Joplin. This is the office you will come to from Duenweg.
Sessions last 100–110 minutes, giving us time to hear what happened and work with how you respond to each other in the room.
Radical Relationship Transformation
2830 Mt. Hope Rd. Webb City, MO 64870
THE PRACTICAL PART
All the fine print.
$180
100–110 minutes, together.
Both partners attend. Married, engaged, or in a committed relationship.
Self-pay. I do not bill insurance.
In person at my Webb City office, near Joplin.
Choose a time online, or contact me for help with scheduling.
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BEFORE YOU SCHEDULE
Questions about getting started.
Where do we meet if we live in Duenweg, MO?
Your appointment is at my office in Webb City, Missouri, near Joplin: 2830 Mt. Hope Rd., Webb City, MO 64870. Both partners attend in person at this location.
What if my partner thinks the issue is already settled?
That difference belongs in the conversation. We can look at what “settled” means to each of you and what still feels unresolved, without requiring you to arrive with the same view.
Do small arguments count as a reason to come?
Yes. A series of small hurts can change how you feel with each other. You can seek help because the relationship feels strained, even if you cannot point to one major event.
Will we have to go through every past fight?
We can begin with an example that still matters. I will help you connect it to the pattern between you and decide what needs attention. You do not need to prepare a complete history.
FOR COUPLES IN DUENWEG, MO
You can do more than wait for the mood to pass.
If the same hurt keeps returning, bring it here. We can start with what remains unfinished and what a meaningful repair would need to include for both of you.