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Shira Hearn
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
Missouri #2022045023
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RADICALLY DIFFERENT THERAPY · OKLAHOMA
Couples counseling for Fairland, OK.
You know something needs to change. You do not have a neat explanation.
Maybe this is your first time considering therapy. You are unsure what to say, what will happen, or whether the problem is serious enough. You can begin with the fact that being together has become harder than you want it to be. We can work out the details when we meet.
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In person in Webb City, near Joplin · Both partners
Shira Hearn, LMFT
Couples are my whole practice.
100–110 minutes
Time for both of you
$180 per session
Self-pay · No insurance billed
In person
At the Joplin–Webb City border
WHAT BRINGS YOU HERE?
You can start with what an ordinary evening feels like.
You do not need to choose the right therapy term. Tell me what happens when you try to talk, ask for help, or spend time together. A recent example can tell us more than a carefully prepared summary.
You may also have different reasons for coming. I want to hear both. We can begin by understanding what each person hopes will change and what feels difficult about asking for help.
No fluff, no BS therapy for relationships that need radical help.
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Start here for a fuller explanation of working on conflict, distance, and connection.
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Read more if a betrayal is the event that brought you to the point of seeking help.
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Explore the work if physical intimacy is the concern you find hardest to name.
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Learn about preparing for marriage through direct conversations about your expectations.
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THE WORK IN THE ROOM
I help guide the first conversation.
You will not be expected to walk in and deliver a complete account of the relationship. I ask questions, listen to both partners, and help identify the interactions that need our attention.
I use Emotionally Focused Therapy. We look at how you respond to each other when the relationship feels difficult and what is happening beneath those responses. I will explain what we are working on as we go.
You can tell me if you are nervous, unsure of a question, or worried that the session is heading somewhere unhelpful. Those reactions are part of getting to know how we work together. You can also ask about the format before scheduling.
Being new to therapy is something we can talk about.
THE OFFICE
Here is where you will come.
If you live in Fairland, Oklahoma, both of you will attend in person at my Webb City, Missouri, office on the Joplin border. The full address and directions link are below.
Set aside 100–110 minutes for the appointment. The fee is $180, self-pay. You can book online or contact me with a question about starting.
Radical Relationship Transformation
2830 Mt. Hope Rd. Webb City, MO 64870
THE PRACTICAL PART
All the fine print.
$180
100–110 minutes, together.
Both partners attend. Married, engaged, or in a committed relationship.
Self-pay. I do not bill insurance.
In person at my Webb City office, near Joplin.
Choose a time online, or contact me for help with scheduling.
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BEFORE YOU SCHEDULE
Questions about getting started.
Where do we meet if we live in Fairland, OK?
Your appointment is at my office in Webb City, Missouri, near Joplin: 2830 Mt. Hope Rd., Webb City, MO 64870. Both partners attend in person at this location.
What should we say when we first contact you?
You can simply say that you are interested in a couples appointment and ask your scheduling question. You do not need to explain the entire relationship in a call, text, or email.
Do we have to agree on the problem before attending?
No. I make room for both perspectives. You do need to agree to attend together and be willing to take part in the conversation.
What if we get emotional or do not know what to say?
You can tell me what is happening, including that you are stuck for words. I help guide the conversation. Having a polished explanation is not a requirement for beginning.
FOR COUPLES IN FAIRLAND, OK
“We could use some help” is a complete place to start.
Choose a time for both of you or contact me with the question that is holding you up. We can take the relationship story from there, together in the room.