If you are here, something has shattered. An affair does not just break rules. It breaks reality. The partner who was once your safest place suddenly feels like the source of danger. You may be asking yourself: Was any of it real? Can I ever trust again? Is this marriage over? Why can't I just "move on"? From an Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) perspective, these questions make sense. An affair is not just a moral failure or a communication problem. It is an attachment injur
